Day 11-20

Day 11

5.6.23 ● Wabash Cannonball Loop ● 26.4 miles

There is nothing like the feeling of being on the bike path on a beautiful morning in May knowing that there are several months of opportunity for bike riding ahead of us.  We ride the full loop which means we ride the South branch of the Wabash Cannonball Trail until it intersects with the North Branch. We then ride 5 miles down Fulton Lucas Rd to pick up the rest of the South Branch of the trail.  This is the loop we have done several times and after so many rides in unfamiliar places it feels good to be on our home turf.  

It feels good to be able to do it too.  Dave says the fact that there is only 30’ of elevation gain makes all the difference.  We keep a fairly steady pace. 

At home it is all about the direction of the wind.  We realize half way in that we chose the wrong direction to do the loop.  When we choose the wrong direction that means that the 5 mile ride down Fulton Lucas and the 7 miles back down the South Branch to our house is into the wind.  It’s an endurance test for us, but it is one we are able to pass.  We both are feeling a bit stronger and more confident. 

Day 12

5.9.23 ● Side Cut ● 18.9 miles

It takes some juggling to fit this ride in.  We are leaving for a weekend in Pittsburgh in two days.  Since it is only 14 days after our 11 day Destin trip we are scrambling to make that turnaround happen. There is much on our to-do lists.  

But the day is gorgeous.  Perfect riding conditions.  And our goal of 15 rides by the end of May is going to be hard to meet without one more before Pittsburgh.  So, we go in the evening, right after dinner.  It’s not our usual plan, but it ends up being just right.  Just one of our out and backs which will only be 13 but as long as we have some that are over 20 we can say that this 13 mile ride is 60 4 60 worthy.  

But then, the unexpected happens, at least unexpected for me.  Dave wants to continue on into Side Cut metropark.  I am surprised given the fact that he woke up with very tight muscles today.  But he says let’s keep going and I am not going to shut that down.  

We ride in companionable silence most of the ride.  I sometimes get pretty chatty, but tonight I don’t.  We are both deep in our thoughts or maybe trying to avoid thinking them. That’s the nice thing about a bike ride.  You can take your thoughts with you or ride away from them.  We make it home with plenty of daylight left and rejoice in the fact that we can say that when it is already 8:30 at night!  As we turn into our street our long shadows stretch out over the lawns and point the way home.  

Day 13

5.18.23 ● Side Cut ● 20.2 miles

Most of our ride was in silence.  My biking buddy prefers this, I think.  Mostly, I like to talk to pass the time, but sometimes, like tonight I give him a break from the listening. 

There is much to talk about, but I hold it in.  We leave for our niece, Olivia’s, high school graduation in Wisconsin in a week, we had a meeting at Parkway Place for the birthday party that is now only 6 weeks away. We need to pick out a paint color for the porch walls.  Our patio workers started today, Lindsey hasn’t given us an update on the job search. I found specialists to address Dave’s nerve pain at OSU and U of M. Today is his dad’s birthday. He would have been 88. 

But, we just ride.  Purple and white flowers line the path at the sunny spots.  Chipmunks and rabbits play frogger ahead of our tires. The trees are now fully leafed. It is hard to imagine that they were only branches and bark just one month ago.  

Dave suggests that we drive down to the end of Davis and back at the end of the ride so it is officially 20 miles.  I am surprised.  I was willing to cut the corner, take the 18.9 and call it a day.  Tacking that last mile on when we are used to turning into our street is difficult.  By this time we are both rather done and longing for the comfort and stillness of home.  

Once we circle back we realize that we still will be under 20.  We ride our street one more time.  I give out a cheer.  We are officially in our teens.  My excitement is short lived as I realize that if I was counting down we would only be at 47.  47 more rides.  Today this feels like an oppressive hurdle.  I think about what it will feel like when there are 47 rides behind us and only 13 ahead. I won’t wish those rides away though.  The end of summer will come soon enough.   


Day 14-19

  • We get a late start.  Neither one of us really wants to go. Between me traveling to two out-of-town baby showers this weekend and Dave spending an afternoon babysitting Nathan and a second afternoon doing yard work, it would have been so easy to decide to sit at home instead.  If it weren’t for our 60 4 60 goal, I am certain we would have found another way to spend our evening. But, neither one of us wants to be the one to prevent Ride 14 from happening, so we eat a hurried dinner and off we go.  

    It’s a beautiful evening. The leaves at Oak Openings are in full bloom.  It’s a little hazy out which makes the colors seem all the richer as we make our way through the park.   

    Our plan to take the new extension towards Delta is scrapped at our first water break.  Dave is irritated at what he says is a lack of energy on his part.  He wants the familiarity of the 18 mile loop that we have taken before.  And I guess he wants to shave off those two miles. 

    We hop back on our bikes and surprisingly do our highest speed along the 5 mile stretch on   Fulton-Lucas Rd. 

    We really haven’t committed ourselves to biking regularly since 2019. We are carrying more baggage now. We face the realities of being 4 years older.  The aches and pains seem as if they are both physical and mental.  We seem to have left the confident and carefree days behind.  Sometimes it seems like our rides are more something to prove and less an activity to enjoy together.  

    I remind us both that Dave hasn’t really done any cardio for 4 years. We are stretching him. He really is doing well considering this.  I have months of walking and elliptical that makes this easier for me.  He will get there, right?  

  • We are tired, yet feeling accomplished.  We’ve met our goal: 15 rides by the end of May.  Now for the next 4 months if we can get 10 rides in each month we will only have 5 more to complete once October hits.  At only 2-3 rides/week, it seems do-able.  

    I am still concerned about how do-able this seems to Dave though. Today he dealt with more foot pain than usual. He immediately went to icing when we got home which was unusual. Of course he doesn’t want to talk about it.  I struggle with knowing how much to push.

  • I am realizing that if I don’t write about a ride before I do another ride that I will not remember it clearly.  What I do remember about Ride 16 is that the night before Dave unexpectedly said, “Let’s go riding early tomorrow morning.”  I was surprised.  After some even worse than usual foot pain and a terrible cramp in his hamstring that woke both of us in the middle of the night, I had decided that I was just going to not say anything about riding. If 60 4 60 ended up being 15 4 60, so be it.  But then, he said, “let’s go.”  and so we did.  

    Even more surprising was that we did the full loop, one of our longest rides.  It was a beautiful morning and because there was no wind we sailed.  Not only did we do the loop, but we had one of our better times.  Dave iced before and after and that seemed to help. Just when I’m ready to give up on it, it looks like we are back in the game.

  • If we had realized our mileage I’m pretty sure we would have gone around the cul de sac one or two times at the end of our ride. We came about as close as you can come to 26.  

    Another beautiful morning. I love these morning rides.  The weather has been simply perfect.  The sun is getting us up early anyways and so why not go for a ride early enough that we are home in time for a full day?  

    17 feels like progress.  Almost 20.  The goal is 25 by the end of June and with getting two in in the first 3 days of June, that feels quite do-able. Only 8 more for this month? Well, we may even get ahead of schedule!

  • By the end of the ride, today felt like a turning point.  As we were riding out to Side Cut I realized that Dave had hardly eaten anything and it was late afternoon.  I was mad. 

    “Really?  Why do you do this to yourself?  Make it harder. Now you will be draggin all the way home.”

    Well apparently those fighting words were all he needed.  We got back to the long stretch home from the mall and he just started sailing. He was determined to prove me wrong. I couldn’t keep up.  It felt like a few years ago.  This, THIS is what we have both been waiting for.  

  • Another beautiful morning, just like the morning 30 years ago today when we hopped in a car instead of on bikes and headed towards the hospital to have our second child. It seems like we were different people back then and I suppose we were.  It would have been hard back then to see that 30 years in the future we would have taken up biking and challenged ourselves with this 60 4 60 idea.  

    We choose Delta again.  There is no wind.  Dave has decided that the big farmer’s fields on this trail are like tackling a horizontal hill when there is any wind in our face. So today, since there is very little wind, we are choosing Delta.  I like this route.  It still has some novelty to it. There is even a pretty covered bridge at the end.  

    Once again Dave was in good form.  For two rides in a row there were times when he was clearly speeding up our pace. The tide is turning! 

Day 20 
6.17.23 ● Side Cut Park ● 20.24 miles

We are ⅓ of the way to our goal.  Two weeks ago we were convinced that we were going to easily complete our goal of 25 by the end of the month.  Then this past week happened.  

My mom is in the hospital.  In the last 6 days we have been to the ER three times, been to two doctor’s appointments and she is now in a hospital room under observation. Her leg is inexplicably blowing up,  her brain is spinning, she can’t walk without way too much pain and we are both wondering what has happened to her life.   

I am overwhelmed with the responsibility of this. I want my life to be about planning for my 60th birthday party and my daughter-in-law’s baby shower, about having my grandson over for the sleepover that got cancelled this weekend and about playing with the baby. Not about ultrasounds and CT scans, and waiting and waiting for doctors’ to figure out what in the world is going on with my mom’s leg.  

Finally, today, I felt that I could fit a ride in.  I call Dave on the way home from the hospital,

“You want to go for a ride?”  He hesitates.  Darn.  He has been working in the yard, doing the weeding and trimming that has been left to him alone while I sit in a hospital..  His body hurts.  It always hurts but I know it is hurting even more because of a day spent doing yard work.  So I give him a pass.  I tell him it’s fine, I’ll walk instead when I get home.  

But then I get home and he says “Let’s go.”  We hop on our bikes and head towards Side Cut.  Again it is a beautiful day.  It couldn’t be better.  I feel free and alive.  The contrast with what I had to face this week makes the ride all the sweeter.  

I can tell Dave is hurting.  We are going slower.  We are both trying to ignore it.  We make it to Side Cut and I insist on us taking a path that goes across to the other side of the park instead of taking laps around the parking lot to get to our 20 mile threshold.  And then, we discover it.  A river trail that is paved for at least ½ mile, maybe more.  It turns to gravel and that’s where we stop to turn around.  I can tell Dave is not as interested in this trail as I am, but I’m pretty sure it is the pain talking because this path is beautiful!  It is lush greens and trees bending towards the water.  Even the muddy Maumee River looks blue on a day like today along a path like this.  This scene is filling me up at a time when I need exactly this.  A path that for, whatever reason, has been hidden from us until a day like today when I just really needed something beautiful.  

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