
Day 41-50
Day 41
8.23.23 ● Side Cut Metro Park ● 20.5 miles
My legs are tired. My hip is bothering me a little bit. There are days when this riding is tedious. The one thing I can say about 60 4 60 is that it is motivating us to hop on the bikes again and again. It’s the nudge I need for sure.
I am upset that this hasn’t been the weight loss machine that I had hoped it would be. Dave has lost a little, maybe 5 lbs? Me? Absolutely nothing. Most days, I can’t even hit the low weight of my range. My body has stuck with what it knows.
I sure would be happy to see some lower numbers on the scale, yet here I am stuck within a pound or two of what I’ve been for years.
But, I am healthy, I am strong. I am happy, I am practically pain-free. I tell myself it is enough.
Day 42
7.21.23 ● The Loop ● Dave 6.8 miles | Lisa 13ish miles
It happened again, a spoke broke on Dave’s bike. We had only gone 6 of our 26 miles. We were only about 5 miles from home which is a lot closer than I had wanted to be.
Here’s the prologue: today is a Saturday. And for us to have a Saturday with absolutely nothing on our calendars is rare indeed. So today I really want an adventure. I am tired of the same 4 routes. We have done none of the trails I have researched. I start by suggesting we do the Elmore to Fremont trail and check in on little Nora Jane. I text Chris but don’t hear back. So then I get out my list and get it into my head that we should go to Fort Wayne. There is a Greenway there that goes along the Maumee River. It sounds lovely and interesting and all the things I am needing to revitalize my interest in our bike rides. The day promises to be rain free, wind free and a comfortable temperature. It’s suddenly all I want.
But the problem of course is that I have sprung this on Dave. Dave is feeling busy. Dave is looking forward to a day that doesn’t include phone calls and spreadsheets and commitments. Most importantly, Dave does not do spontaneity well. My suggestion to totally switch up the day doesn’t go so well. It's obvious where this story is taking us.
We hop on our bikes and commit ourselves to the Loop. I am still not so happy, but have decided that I’ll get over it. There is no sense to drag Dave on a daylong adventure that he isn’t feeling.
And we know where this bike ride ends. For Dave it is in Monclova, for me it is a solo ride home
Postscript: I pull the truck out of the driveway to go pick him up at Monclova school. Ride 42 did not give us that satisfied feeling.
Day 43-46
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It didn’t take long to get Dave back up and running. He was told his bike is old and either needs to get replacement wheels or be replaced. And so now, we don’t trust it. Is it just a few more rides until it happens again? He has a decision to make.
So we choose the loop since the loop didn’t happen Saturday. We are squeezing this ride into an early afternoon. The weather has cooled down enough that this is do-able. Even a couple of weeks ago an afternoon ride would have been way too hot. But our nights and mornings are getting cooler and the sun no longer feels like the enemy in the middle of the day.
We ride faster than we have which feels good. Dave is trying to keep us above an average of 13 mph on his trip computer. We are the only ones on the path.. Everyone else is off to school or work. Having the opportunity to fit this in any time of the day feels quite lucky. Life is full, but this is still manageable. 43 down, 17 to go.
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This week has been incredibly busy with Lindsey home, Mom’s birthday and Matt’s upcoming wedding but we were still able to get two rides in. Since our schedule was cleared for a baby being born sometime this month we are catching up to my goal of 45 before the end of August. 13 was our lucky number: 13 rides in August and a granddaughter born on the 13th. This month was all about spending time on the bike paths and then beating a path to Fremont to snuggle a baby. Not a bad way to spend the last days of summer.
On this ride, a surprise. As we pull into the Side Cut parking lot, we get a hearty hello. It is our friends, Timm and Bob. They are training for a full GAP ride. DC to Pittsburgh. 330 miles in 6 days, carrying all of their belongings on their bikes. We bike with them until the trails split..
I asked Dave after we part if he wished he was going too and he said no way.
I wish he had that adventure in him. I wish I had that adventure in me. I think I would have been pushed in any direction someone would have nudged me. So, since I married Dave, those nudges toward adventure didn’t happen. There have been nudges in other directions that have made life pretty wonderful in other ways though. But sometimes I dream of places like the Appalachian Trail, the Santo Camino, the GAP and wish I could say they were a part of my life.
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This ride will probably be the one I am the most proud of. 30.4 miles at our highest average pace yet of 13.3 miles, on a humid, warmer than usual morning when I had only consumed lipton cup a soup and ginger ale for the last 54 hours. I seriously don’t even know how I did it.
We came home from my brother’s wedding after I had not eaten for over two days. I developed diverticulitis while we were gone. I couldn’t skip the wedding to go to the hospital for treatment and I could not get a hold of a doctor at home for a prescription on a holiday weekend. I had no choice but to stop eating to make the symptoms subside.
The takeaway is that I could do it. I could bike with no food in me. And not only that, I could do it and not feel hungry or shaky or sluggish. How was this even possible? Food for thought, no doubt.
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We have to leave early because I have a car appointment. I tell Dave we need to leave at 7:00. He says, “We’ll try,” and I am annoyed. What do you mean, “we’ll try?” Isn’t it either a yes or a no? Well, not necessarily. Of course he is tuned into the sunrise time more than I am. Sunrise is at 7:20. Will it even be light enough at 7:00? I hate that we are going to be constrained more and more by sunrise and sunset times, temperatures and weather. We are on the road by 7:35. It is light enough.
It is a very cloudy day. In fact so cloudy that we soon realize that the mist we are riding through is really because we must be riding in a low cloud. There is no rain on the radar, but there are certainly low hanging clouds and a mist covering our glasses.
I am tired of all of this riding effort and no weight loss reward. I’ve decided that I am going to try some intermittent fasting to see if I can get over this hurdle of not being able to lose weight past my low set point. I’m tired of being the woman who can’t get results. After Ride 45 that I did such a killer job on with no food in my stomach I am wondering if I’ve been doing it wrong all along. I have always felt that I needed to eat something before an early morning ride. This time I do not reach for anything before we walk out the door. And I am fine. I realize that I don’t need it. Not one bit. I don’t crave a protein bar or feel shaky. I am totally fine. This is exciting.
I will miss breakfast, I do love breakfast, but I am now committing myself to a September of intermittent fasting and morning exercise. I need to see where this might go. An 8 hour window for eating means that I will not be eating in the morning until 11 or 12. Who knows, maybe it's the missing puzzle piece I’ve been searching for. My belief is that if this can get me to a new set point that this doesn’t have to be a life sentence. It can be a temporary solution to get me to where I want to be.
Day 47
9.9.23 ● The Loop ● 26.5 miles
We slept in. We rarely do, but this morning it just felt right, snuggling in under the covers on a gray, cool morning. It was 8:30 before we crawled out from under the covers and didn’t hop on our bikes until 9:40. It was probably just as well. It was cool and if we had left at 8:00 like we had planned it would have been downright cold.
Today was hard. My legs were hurting and I’m not sure why. I sat in the cool fall air from 5-11:30 last night. Was that it? Dave was also hurting, but he had done 45 minutes of a leg work out the day before, so that makes sense.
This is the third morning I have ridden without eating anything first and for some reason, it was the hardest. Maybe because the last thing I consumed the night before was wine? An unusually light dinner of shrimp cocktail, carrots and green beans? I don’t know, but I was really hungry by the time we got on the south branch.
Not my best ride, but I still completed it. That’s what matters. 47 down, 13 to go.
Day 48
9.12.23 ● Side Cut ● 20.4 miles
I got done with the CT scan and called Dave. “We should probably go.” That’s not a big endorsement for enthusiasm for a bike ride, but I knew that the week probably would not lend us anymore time to bike than the evening that lay in front of me.
His response was more enthusiastic than mine. He said he’d be ready.
This is sometimes how it is. You fit it in inbetween CT scans that are most likely, (please God), unnecessary and early morning babysitting that is. You don’t really want it to take the remainder of your evening, but you want to get one more ride in the done pile. One of us isn’t that jazzed about going, but the other one gives the nudge we need.
It ends up being a lovely ride. It seems that whenever we go to Side Cut it’s beautiful. This time it’s crowded too. We pass two groups of little children and parents attempting some kind of organized activity, several dog-walkers and young families. After a non-typical gloomy few days of September, everyone is enjoying this peak weather we’ve come to expect during this month.
Sometimes the best rides are the ones I think I don’t want to do.